Monday, November 9, 2009

Veterans Day - A Father's Reflection

In September of this year, in the wee hours of a rainy, cold morning, a young man, an American soldier, stepped off a plane and into the arms of an elated and significantly relieved mother and father.

For the first time in nearly a year these parents could go to sleep without worrying about a phone call in the middle of the night or a knock on the door. They could check their email without any hesitation and not have to take a deep breath before reading the morning paper or checking the latest news on the war in Iraq.

Immeasurably proud, they watched their son answer a call to duty, setting aside his personal goals and objectives, to answer a greater call, one to serve his country and the weak and defenseless abroad. Instead of long letters there would be longer talks in the living room. In place of care packages there would be a dining room table laden with all his favorite foods. Rather than loved ones of deployed soldiers getting together to support each other, there would be celebrations thanking each other and more importantly, God. Supplications of prayers for protection would be transformed into praises of protection and further supplications for those families who would not be sharing the same experience.

Gone are the nights of a father sitting in front of his computer tapping away at a keyboard trying to convey the many thoughts he has about his son at war. Nevertheless he thinks about how a little boy grew up to be a man and a soldier. He ponders how his son has the courage to step out of a Stryker into hostile territory and confront the deep-rooted wickedness of a hateful enemy. He wonders how he kept his wits about him. All the while he is overwhelmed with pride and finds the thoughts about his younger reflection, doing a job he himself has never done, daunting.

Thank you son,

From a proud father and grateful American

8 comments:

noel jones said...

As my brother has just been deployed to Iraq, I'm just now getting my first taste of what until now has only been an anticipated anxiety. This posts hits close to home. Thanks, Terrence.

David Caines said...

Hi Terrence,
Our prayers go with both famillies and we are thrilled to know that your son is at least alive and well. I think like most that we support the troops but not "Bush's war", and for us that's quite litteraly true. We sent our old cell phones to "Cell Phones for soldiers", and we give to the USO when possible.
And yes, the next generation are as always paying the price for our freedoms, whether we support the war or not. They've signed the line, and went where we the American people have sent them.
When this whole mess started Jeanette and I disscussed my "re-uping" and well for us that was a deal breaker. Relly couldn't argue though.
I think when this war has come and passed we as a nattion will look back on it as a folly, and yet it is of course my hope that your son and Noel's brother will come back alive and well and willing to take part in the pollitical proccess for which they have fought.
Our prayers and best wishes to all the service people out there and of course our hopes to a speedy conclusion to this time of strife,
Thanks,
David and Jeanette

Dennis R. Lieb said...

My niece came back, safe and sound from Kuwait a while back and is now married to a guy she met while in the 82nd Airborne. They have two kids and live in Kentucky. The differnece of course between now and when I was a kid is the all volunteer military.

When I was ten, my brother joined the Marines and was deployed to Vietnam. My parents and I watched the network news every night and waited for a glimpse of him during the war news. Lots of regular people did the same thing and there was no shortage of coverage (if somewhat filtered for propaganda purposes).

Today it doesn't seem to me that this war, which has dragged on longer than any in my memory, attracts the same sense of daily dread of Vietnam. I think the all volunteer military has a lot to do with that.

It will be difficult going forward to end conflicts like this as they have become "someone else's war", turned into ongoing political manueverings carried out by professionals. Until the rank and file public starts suffering wholesale personal losses from these miscarriages of government I'm afraid we may be looking at a history of continual warfare.

Terrence...glad your kid is back in one piece. Keep an eye on him. Emotional recovery is another matter and another thing the government doesn't help us do very well either.

DRL

Anonymous said...

Terrence, when I saw your porch festooned to welcome you son home safe that joyful night, I was overwhelmed with relief and gratitude for you and Theresa, and for your son's arrival back home intact. Thank you neighbor for your heartfelt post.

noel jones said...

For those who are interested, I just read in the Bugler that on Veterans' Day tomorrow, a local author and WW II historian, David Colley will speak about his book Decision at Strasbourg, published by The Naval Institute Press, at noon at the Easton Area Public Library to commemorate Veterans' Day. The event is free and people are welcome to bring a sack lunch.

For more information, call 610-258-2917 ext. 393. For more info on the book and author, visit http://www.davidpcolley.com

noel jones said...

Saw the memorial for victims of the Ft. Hood massacre on TV today--such a tremendous tragedy in so many ways...to see the slain soldiers' empty hats and boots next to their photos was disturbing in a necessary way, and made me worry for my brother even more...

There was a lot of talk by the broadcasters and their guests about how this should be considered a terrorist attack. There were also many references to 911 during the course of the broadcast. I hope that people will remember that the shooter was a very disturbed American that killed other Americans, and that his crime has more in common with Timothy McVeigh's in the Oklahoma bombing than it does with an attack like 911, which was an attack by foreigners on domestic soil. There are thousands of American Muslims in our military that serve this country bravely and patriotically, and they should not have to suffer ignorance at the hands of those Americans who don't understand the difference. They are horrified by this tragedy as well.

My heart goes out to all those at Ft. Hood coping with this shocking loss.

Nikkita said...

Set them straight noel!
It disgust me to see people so eager to put on their racist hat to any type of tragedy that is at the hands of a minority. As if it is to say See! I told you THEY are no good! I told you that THEY should be shot first and ask questions later (maybe). It just really shows your true nature and ignorance. Believing everything you see on tv which is there for the exact reason to bring division between people of different colors, religions, sexes, economic backgrounds etc. It's easier to control a nation that is divided and people like that play into the hand so easily.

I personally don't believe in war period but like most people do want our warriors to be safe while abroad and treated fairly by our government when they return.

noel jones said...

Celticwarrior, it's called independent thought. That's what we try to promote in this forum. Nothing changes the fact that he is an American, who killed Americans, in America, as Timothy McVeigh. You seem attached to the need to paint Major Hasan as a "Muslim terrorist." So then, if there is no institutionalized racism or xenophobia at play here in our media, why wasn't Timothy McVeigh referred to as a "Christian terrorist?" Why did average Americans not start getting nervous and suspicious of all other Christians? If you're going to say one, you have to say the other, to have a logical argument.

If Timothy McVeigh is not a terrorist, and just an American who went nuts and murdered a bunch of Americans, than Major Hasan is too. If we're going to label it domestic terrorism, then they are both domestic terrorists. And if we're going to label Major Hasan a Muslim Terrorist, then we need to label Timothy McVeigh a Christian Terrorist.