Thursday, February 11, 2010

The Yin/Yang of Critical Thinking vs. Rose-Colored Glasses in Easton

Sometimes we need to be reminded...
Posted by: Noel Jones


In Terrence Miller's previous post on police statistics (below on this homepage) I tried to respond to commenter Anon 9:20 but my answer turned out to be too long, which is a good indication that it would do better as a post of its own. With regard to the conversation that was developing on the topic of adopting alternative progressive crime reduction strategies, Anon commented:


"Things are looking up, now if our residents would start talking about our good points a little more than our bad points we might start attracting the right people to our neighborhood. It's one thing to be concerned and we all should be but sometimes we are our own worse enemies. Hell if I didn't live here already I wouldn't move here. We need to talk about our positives and address our negatives from within."


And this is my reply that ended up having too many characters to post as a comment:





Anon 9:20~I hear you, and you are posing a debate of both philosophy and strategy that gets hashed out often in the community between neighbors, and between residents and the City sometimes.

Some people think that we should focus on the positive all the time, to highlight what is most attractive about our neighborhood (the historic homes, the walkability, the diversity, the proximity to major cities, the affordable home prices, the creative people here...) thereby attracting more middle-class home-buyers who will then fix up more homes and pay into the tax base and continue to stabilize the neighborhood that way, little by little.

Others think that not addressing our issues as a community is sweeping our neighborhood's problems under the rug to let them fester while we pretend everything is great on the surface, and in fact the problems get worse because the community must first pay attention to find creative ways of solving them.

I tend to think that a mix of both approaches is key to revitalization--that both the critical voices and the positive celebratory voices need to not only be heard, but to listen and respond to each other. I hope this blog achieves this balance of the two, as we have some administrators (and commenters) that focus on problems that need solving, and others that tend to focus on vision (some do both). Creative problem-solving and vision are both crucial to this neighborhood (and Easton at large) and its chances of continuing to make a healthy comeback.

For instance, on this home page alone, we have conversations going about the possibility of passenger rail, progressive methods of crime reduction, a proposed 12% tax hike by the school district, an artists salon, a brand new neighborhood newspaper, an art gallery opening, Lafayette's invitation to have dinner with residents, a Water Works workshop to teach residents how to steward our streams, and then Tim Hare's Gratitude Alphabet, which is always extremely positive and focused on the good stuff of the West Ward.

So, as you can see, there are actually many more positive posts on this home page than critical ones, so I have to wonder if you might be uncomfortable with hearing any criticism at all...some people are uncomfortable with that, and I understand that--constructive debate is tricky, sometimes emotionally challenging stuff--it's an art to be cultivated, the art of being ok with others who don't agree, but beyond that, to really listen to what others are saying without feeling threatened by it if it is unfamiliar, or counter to the perceptions we currently hold. This emotional tension, I believe, is at the core of our country's seeming inability to engage in fruitful debate today, resulting in a very polarized society that can't seem to listen to each other and consider other points of view. People's views tend to get so wrapped up in their sense of identity, that even considering another's point of view can feel like a threat to one's very being, i.e., people of extreme viewpoints who can't seem to listen at all, but instead lob slogans and insults at the other side like a constant barrage of primitive ammunition.

I'm very proud of our readership because 98% of the time, the discourse is civil, even in disagreement, and that there is so much information flowing between residents in the community, that we all learn from each other and start figuring out what we can do together (or as individuals) to take action and improve our neighborhood and our city. The coming street sweeping program is an example of that. So are the two community gardens we planted this year, as well as the improved rapport and cooperation between residents and police.

But I do think it's very important to encourage critical independent constructive thinking (as opposed to complaining, which helps no one) as I mentioned in an earlier blog post, I am of the opinion that even criticism is positivity, as long as it is constructive and offers some vision, which Terrence's article does. I feel strongly that Easton suffers from two extremes: 1. cynical complainers who want to see it all go down in flames as a form of validation for their own disappoint in life here, and 2. the compulsion to pretend that everything is great already--that all restaurants here are 5-star, that all art presented is of quality, that it is acceptable for windows in storefronts in our downtown to be cluttered and poorly designed, simply because these businesses have not gone under and left the windows empty. If we tell everyone that everything is already great when its not, we lower the bar for our town until there is no bar left, nothing to strive for, none of the healthy competition that makes a local community and economy thrive.

We need to challenge each other, look our problems in the face and solve them, and then take breaks now and then to have fun and enjoy the beauty of our town and our neighborhood. On a snowy day like today, nothing beats looking out over our hilltops, all those glittering white rooftops in the sun...


I would like to hear from our readers regarding the balance of criticism and positivity on this blog. Too negative? Too positive? Just right? Let us know what you think--the conversation is what it's all about.

6 comments:

Easton Heights Blogger said...

I basically agree w/ you Noel, there can and should be a balance of viewpoint. I would like to think I'm positive (I DO live here, after all, haven't moved) but I don't ignore the negative. Pollyanna was a good idea for a kids movie but doesn't translate well to the real world.

Cathy said...

I used to not live here. Coming home on the bus from NYC to my parents' house in Coopersburg - I couldn't get enough of looking at Easton. It looked like Europe to me. I had a goal of moving here for more than 10 years. So I choose to live here. Drugs and other criminal activities do not deter me (having stepped over bodies on my doorstep in NYC during the 80's and having had an outreach office inside Manhattan Family Court.) What gave me pause here was the reactions of some of the "was born and raised here" folk. At City Council, County Council, Main Street Mtgs, Weed & Seed Mtgs (and on and on its been 10 years now) the attitude seemed to be "Who do you think you are?" In reality, the lack of genuine curiousity was actually quite stunning.

I am heartened that more and more there are "newcomers" to Easton and that they share the same perspective that I have - this is a gorgeous town. I think some who love Easton because they were born and raised here need to open their hearts and minds a little bit to those that are "new." There is some wisdom to be had based on having lived somewhere else. To not assimilate, sustain and be nurtured by new blood will cause a lag in Easton's revitalization. I am grateful that after a decade of perservence in the end for my efforts there have come forward folks here who are terrifically supportive. I feel hopeful and positive about our future.

Dennis R. Lieb said...

The born-and-raised vs newcomer issue is interesting. As a Realtor for 15 years in Easton, I endured the wave of out-of-town developers who rushed here in the post-911 frenzy to make a killing in the perceived bull market of real estate (look how that turned out). There were some good ones and a lot of jerks as well. We ended up with some decent projects, some not-so-decent projects and a whole lot of wild stuff that never got off the ground.

I ended up in many conversations with outsiders/newcomers who were perplexed about the city's inability to 'take off" the way they thought it should and they would ask me what it would take to make that happen.

I always responed the same way - Easton will thrive when everyone who was born here either dies or moves away. I said it half-jokingly but it also has a lot of truth to it. I have friends I've known from childhood who are completely closed to the possibility of positive change. They'd rather complain about every percieved slight and revel in their misery. I've had to cut ties with them in order to remain neutral and pragmatic in my assesment of things here. It's a shame for me on a personal level but I had no choice...and I still get called a negative person by certain factions in this town. This is my perspective as a born-and-raised Eastonian.

DRL

Anonymous said...

I was not born here. raised here and educated here. I tell you even thought I went through the Easton School District for most of my education and the fact that I have spent the remainder of thirty years here, I still feel like an outsider. If you don't have that birth certificate and you are not the fifteenth generation that live here, you just don't make it.

Easton's problem is that it is a living museum of old buildings and forgotten hierarchies and spatial relations of people, places and things. It all needs to be shaken up.

For example. let's have train service. Build a big parking lot on I 78. A station in the median. And tracks down the center of the road. But one says Easton has tracks and an imaginary station. Museum theory at its best.

Or, let's stop getting grants for the west ward. let's do more by ourselves. Why? To get the grants you have to always say that you are poor. We're not poor or we don't want to be poor. But the groups involved with us don't have purpose unless we are always poor. We succumb to someone else's preconceived determination of class or caste.

It is a matter of rejecting all that we have learned. Is it not? Simon Silk Mill-a future outdoor artist's flea and farmer's market. We have a farmer's market. But, this one will be better.

We are too locked into the past. Nothing ever gets by what it was 30, 50, 70, etc years ago. The West Ward has a lot of crime. Why? Because it always had a lot. It does not mean anything if it has none today, because it always had a lot.

Anonymous said...

There is a anon comment on the other blog post from anon who says that we just need to fix things so that good families move back here and then makes a crack about these blog posters would find fault with a 25% tax reduction.

Hello? Here is some breaking news (to you anon!) Good families have already moved back to the west ward. Some have even already moved out as we are considering because the powers that be here dont seem to know a good family if they fall over one and have no idea about what kinds of shops a good family might need, or that an at least passable school district for our kids might matter or that we might have a problem with inbreeding and cronyism. Surely dont need to be insulted with a crack about 25% decrease what with what the INCREASE the school district is going for.

noel jones said...

Anon 4:51--as for the train--hear hear! Or should I say "here, here!"?

Anon 8:52--i am always leery of the phrase "good family"--it tends to mean different things in different places and to different people. for instance, when i worked at an investment bank in manhattan, "he's from a good family" meant that a new young analyst was some blue blood ivy league country club kid that was potentially a suitable mate for someone else's blue blood ivy league country club daughter, so that all that money could stay within their social circles where it belonged.

in easton, when i hear the phrase, it seems to refer to someone from a family that has had at least three or four generations in the area, and is therefore political connected in this croneyistic local government of ours, regardless of whether or not they've done anything good for the town.

on this blog we have genuine conversations between newcomers, old-timers, and the folks in between who weren't born here but have lived here for 10-30 years. all of those experiences of all those different lives brought together in one conversation have the potential to shake things up and get things done around here.

the street sweeping program that passed tonight is a great first step in the change we're after. the EASD tax hike is a battle that we are fighting right now--it will take vigilance and attendance to keep them from hitting us with a double-digit tax increase.

passenger rail is something of vision that we need to lobby hard for, by writing letters to our state rep bob freeman, our congressmen, and our local officials. there are some officials in the way who are fans of expanding highways rather than trains--we need to go over their heads and make it happen.

but as for what cathy is saying, one thing I like about the WW is that we do have a community of progressive people coalescing here as friends and neighbors that don't judge each other by how many years they've been in town, but rather, value the experience that each of us has brought with him/her and get inspired by what we can accomplish together.